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Bondage is enjoying something of a renaissance and thousands of couples regularly enjoy this form of sex play, across the UK. However, unless you’ve got the space or have access to your own dungeon, it can be difficult to take domestic bondage beyond the handcuff-level. If you’d like to enjoy bondage with your partner, but don’t want to see your bedroom dominated by specialist equipment or littered with cuffs, then maybe you need to invest in a set of sports sheets.
March 2013
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Mt fella, Pete, likes to think of himself as something of a handyman. Although he’s only in his thirties, he’s the old-fashioned sort: likes his tea at a certain time and he’s the one to do the odd-jobs around the house. I think he was attracted to me for my English Rose looks: I’ve got blonde, curly hair, a slender frame and one of those faces that always look completely innocent.
March 2013
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Bondage tends to be perceived as a practice in which men are the dominant force. Most pornography depicts scenarios in which a woman is bound and gagged, leaving the man to do with her whatever he fancies. However, a growing number of men are admitting that they prefer being tied up to being the active party. The question is ‘why?’
March 2013
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If you have even a passing interest in the world of S&M, then you are probably aware of the terms Dom and Sub; a Dom is the dominant party in sexual role-play, whilst the Sub is the submissive one. In thinking about it, you’ve probably got an image of a leather-clad guy barking orders at a bound girl. However, while there is an element of demand from the Dom, there is more to being in charge than just getting someone to do what you want.
February 2013
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Although my husband’s into humiliation, I think he’s met his match in me. We’re not a conventional couple; I’m a big girl, with all the curves in all the right places and Jim is a tattooed biker with more piercings than I care to think about.
February 2013
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Hazing, put simply, is a form of ritual abuse. In its most benign forms, it generally takes the form of an ‘initiation ceremony’ into a particular club; participants have to undergo a rites of passage ritual, in which they are subjected to humiliating ‘tests’ such as eating dog food, drinking copious amounts of alcohol or parading naked in public. However, hazing has taken on a darker, more sexual aspect in recent years.
January 2013
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It was Dean who opened my eyes to the world of S&M. We’d been dating for a while and h hadn’t said anything about it. I knew he liked it a bit kinky; he has pierced nipples and one in a very prominent place. To look at me, you wouldn’t think we were the ideal couple; he’s got tattoos and a shaved head and I’m a young-looking twenty-seven year-old. In some ways I look a bit under-developed, with a small bust and a very petite frame, but Dean likes me just the way I am.
January 2013
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S&M is part of an alternative form of sexual expression, involving a Dom and a Sub. As you might expect, the Dom is in charge of the actions, orgasms and, to a degree, the will of the Sub. However, if you’re new to domination, there is more to it than simply ordering someone around. The interaction between the Dom and the Sub is more akin to a seduction; the Dom seduces the Sub with his power, while the Sub seduces the Dom with his malleability.
December 2012
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Many couples, when they have gotten comfortable with each other in the bedroom, like to indulge in S&M.
November 2012
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Bondage is enjoyed by thousands of couples across the UK on a daily basis. Chains, ropes and silk ties are used to restrict the movement of one of the participants, in a practice that is reported to heighten sexual arousal and intensify orgasm. However, to the uninitiated, bondage can appear deviant and bizarre. What is it that’s so good about bondage – and why does it work?
October 2012
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Punishment is a regular and healthy part of many people’s sex lives. There are generally two parties involved: the dominant (Dom) and the submissive (Sub). While there has been plenty written from the Dom’s point of view, there is relatively little information available to Subs as to how to get the most from their punishment.
September 2012
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If you’re tired of hearing your fella moan on about how he’s too exhausted for sex, then there’s a simple trick you’re missing out on: erotic massage. The next time your man complains of a headache or that he’s too tired, start by offering him a massage. Play it cool and he won’t suspect what you’re up to – until it’s too late…
August 2012
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Gags are used on a daily basis, across the country, as part of many couple’s sex lives. However, the reasons for using gags can differ and yours will influence the type of gag you choose.
July 2012
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My boss, Jason, likes to think he really knows how to lay down the law. In the office, he’s not afraid of pulling people up if their work is substandard and he doesn’t really care what others think; he’s a bit of a whip-cracker. But there’s one person he never says a word to, never raises his voice at and never complains about – and that’s me.
May 2012
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According to research by the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction, between 20% and 30% of women enjoy being spanked as a way of heightening their sexual pleasure. What are the reasons behind this and how far should you go?
May 2012
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They say that the march of a thousand miles begins with a single step and the same is true of your first time at and S&M club. As much as you’re going to be excited, you’re also going to be nervous, but there are a few things you can do to make your first visit as relaxed as possible.
April 2012
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Being Chinese, going to see the Chinese New Year Parade is important to me, especially as this year is the Year of the Dragon; an important year in the Eastern Zodiac.
March 2012
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Sex is an integral part of most couple’s relationships. While it can be a way of expressing love and emotion, it can also be a way of just getting off on pure lust.
March 2012
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My husband, Alan, runs his own business. When we first got married, our sex life was fantastic; he’d come home and take me wherever I was standing. Or sitting. Or lying. But, as the business got bigger, his responsibilities grew and he’d come home later and later, too tired for anything other than his dinner.
February 2012
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For many guys, the thought of being at the mercy of a dominatrix is an exciting one. It’s generally a practice enjoyed by ‘type A’ personalities; men who hold positions of responsibility on a daily basis, such as CEOs, lawyers, executives and politicians.
February 2012
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Think of bondage and you immediately think of a submissive begging for mercy as they are teased or tortured.
January 2012
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When most people think of domination, they imagine a setting where one person is subjecting another to a set of punishments such as spanking or verbal insults
September 2011