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As a professional couple, Simon and I rarely have time to look after our son, other than at the weekends. So, after some discussion, we decided to hire an au pair. But I did have strong words with Simon about keeping his hands to himself; he did have an affair early into our marriage and I wasn’t going to let it happen again.
May 2013
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I’d just moved into a village, not far from where I work. My promotion meant that I could afford something outside of the city and something a bit closer to what I’d always dreamed of – a little cottage in the countryside. I have to say, I didn’t really fit in; because I work as a PA, I’m always dressed to impress, usually in a tight, grey suit that heightens my curves. It’s part of my job to look good, so I watch what I eat and work out on a regular basis. As a result, I look pretty hot; I’ve got a tight little figure, with long legs and while my breasts might not be up there with Christina Hendricks’, they are perfectly formed. Cap it off with a short, glossy black bob and you get the idea.
May 2013
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Off the back of the book, 50 Shades of Grey, there has been a renewed interest in the world of S&M. However, for those who are new to the game, the sheer range of toys, gadgets and gizmos available can be a little daunting. Let’s have a look at the five S&M toys that no self-respecting Sub or Dom should be without:
May 2013
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There comes a point in every long-term relationship when what happens in the bedroom starts to get a little routine. Let’s face it: you know each other inside out and you know which buttons to press; it’s a far cry from the heady days when you were just starting to find out about each other’s likes and dislikes, between the sheets. However, it doesn’t have to be all doom and gloom; there are a few simple tricks you can use to get things all revved up again – but the main trick is to make sure it doesn’t look like it’s all about you!
April 2013
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Stacking shelves at night isn’t quite what I had in mind when I left University, but you’ve got to pay the bills, somehow. I’d moved to a new area, lost my job for having an affair with my boss and was now skint and single. But still very sexy.
April 2013
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Whether you’re a seasoned S&M player or you’re new to the game, it’s always worth reminding yourself of the basics. S&M is a passionate pursuit and it’s too easy to let yourself get carried away. However, even though this activity might be considered by some to be deviant in nature, there is still a code of behavior that must be adhered to. Here are the five essential rules for S&M:
April 2013
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Working in a retirement village is rewarding. It’s like a small community; everyone has their own apartment and I’m there if people take a tumble or need special care. It’s quite an exclusive place; you need money to be there. I’m popular with the residents –especially the men. Many of them say I look like Vivien Leigh but, bring only twenty eight, I don’t know who that it. Maybe it’s my pixie-crop or my pert breasts; whatever it is, I get a lot of attention, especially in my nurse’s uniform.
March 2013
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I’ve always been a sporty kind of girl and when the chance came up to join my local netball team, I jumped at the chance. I’m only in my mid-twenties, with a killer figure but, as far as I’m concerned, there’s always room for improvement.
March 2013
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Most girls have a male friend they flirt with. They might be married, they might be dating a friend or it might just be that they’re not on the market, but the rules are that you can flirt, but you don’t touch. I was single and my flirt-buddy was Rob. Rob was always surprised that I was single. In our flirty moments, he described me as a better looking version of Naomi Watts. There is a resemblance there; I’ve got the same figure and I’m blonde, but I’m about ten years younger.
March 2013
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While it might be a surprise to many weight-obsessed women, many men actually prefer their partners to have a bit of meat on them. Hollywood, the newspapers and the media are almost telling us the size and shape of the women we should find attractive; generally, stick-thin and with boyish figures. However, recent research suggests that larger women are actually starting win the beauty battle, being perceived as more desirable that their curveless counterparts. Here are five reasons why men find the larger woman more attractive:
March 2013
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One night, during a pretty hardcore sex session, I’d swapped sex fantasies with my husband, Thom. We’d been married for five years and while the sex was good, it wasn’t as good as it used to be. But my confession that I’d like to be banged by another guy while he watched seemed to really get Thom going and the sex that night was fantastic.
March 2013
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My boyfriend, Al, hates shopping with me. No matter how much fun I promise it’s going to be, he always ends up sitting outside the changing room, looking bored and complaining to anyone who’ll listen. Given that I’m a hot-looking mixed-race girl, you’d think that he’d be pleased that I take so much pride in my appearance; I’m always on the look-out for short skirts that show-off my silky, toned legs or tight tops that highlight my perky, little breasts.
February 2013
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One of the main worries for men involved in MMF threesomes is that they’re going to bump uglies in the heat of passion. Indeed, in certain circumstances, such as DP, penises are only separated by a thin layer of skin and the sensations of one rubbing against the other are impossible to avoid. A scenario in which the woman fellates two men together throws up the same problem; is sexual contact of this sort indicative of some latent homosexuality?
February 2013
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Phone sex is a superb way to fill the gaps in your relationship; you might not always be able to spend the time you want to together, but the wonders of the electric telephone mean you don’t have to be together to enjoy a sexual experience. However, like most people, you’ve probably got other factors working against you; work and family commitment or even financial considerations, such as being limited to using the phone at certain times of the day. Is there a way you can ensure that you’re both in the mood at the same time?
February 2013
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I love my flatmate, Aisha. She’s a tall, mixed-race girl, with a stunning figure which she keeps up through her career as a dancer. I work as a model and, between the two of us, we’re known as the local hotties.
February 2013
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I’d always thought of myself as one of the boys and, with hindsight, that’s where my problem was. Hell I even dressed like one of the boys; I have a very small, slender frame, with small, pert breasts and I’d even cut my hair into a spiky crop, which accentuated my elfin features. Harry, Mike and Ian, although they were all smoking hot, were just my mates as far as I was concerned.
January 2013
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You may have taken part in electrostimulation – or electro play – without even realising it. Have you ever used a vibrator on your girlfriend? Or maybe you’ve allowed her to place it on your genitals and discovered the sensations that can be caused by the electrical vibrations. Either way, this is just the tip of the electro play iceberg. Electro play is the use of a safe, electrical current to enhance feelings of sexual arousal and even to attain orgasm. It’s an excellent way to explore the boundaries between pleasure and pain without doing you or your partner any discernible damage.
January 2013
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If the bedroom’s looking a bit boring and the kitchen table-legs are starting to get a bit wobbly, then maybe you need to take your sex-life outdoors. Many couples have experienced the illicit thrill of getting a little ‘carried away’ on holiday and yearn to recreate the excitement. For others, it’s a secret fantasy that they’ve never been bold enough to commit to, perhaps through fear of the Law. If you’ve never tried it, but you want to, then here are some pointers about how to make al fresco sex safe – and legal
January 2013
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If you’ve ever worked in office, you’ll know how much the team building weekend is hated. But our boss, Linda, had a surprise for us. Instead of sending the lot of us away to do a mindless classroom session, she broke us down into groups. I was really lucky; I was sent away with Luke and John, the office fitties.
December 2012
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Being the only female lawyer in chambers dies get you noticed. Especially when you’re in your thirties with long, black hair, bright green eyes, breasts that seem to defy gravity and a penchant for killer heels. Trouble is, most of the attention I get is from much older guys. Sure, they’ve looked after themselves, but I don’t do grey. But there is this one other lawyer; David he’s in his forties, I reckon and sexy in a kind of understated way. The only thing is he seems really shy; every time I look at him, he blushes and looks away.
December 2012
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I love being a stripper. I think it’s a power thing; that moment when I take off my bra to reveal my pert breasts or shake my long, blonde hair over a guy’s shoulders as I give him an impromptu lap-dance – it just makes me horny as hell.
December 2012
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When our street had a party to celebrate the homecoming of a number of troops, it was decided that we’d set it in the 1940’s – a bit like a celebration of the end of the war. The street was full of bunting and a line of trestle tables were practically groaning with food. All I had to do was get into my costume. I’d managed to hunt down an old WREN’s uniform and, once I’d put on the suspenders and stockings, I felt pretty sexy. Which was a shame, considering I was single.
November 2012
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My friend, Ally, is a real hottie. She’s in her thirties, with legs right up to her perfect butt and a chest that should win awards. Top it off with long blonde hair and a pair of ice-blue eyes and you get the picture. The bit that might come as a surprise is that she’s a private dentist.
October 2012
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Working as a glamour model certainly gets you noticed. You may have seen me in the magazines; I’m tall, blonde, with huge breasts and a perfectly-shaped backside. Everywhere I go, guys comment on my looks and, to be honest, it gives me a bit of a thrill, just knowing that I could probably have them if I wanted.
October 2012
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When it was announced that my university would be arranging an exchange programme with a university in Spain, I jumped at the chance. Part of my degree was about Spanish history and, given that I loved the language, the country and the culture, it seemed the ideal way to brush up on my coursework. Not to mention the idea of being surrounded by all those swarthy, Spanish men for a few weeks…
October 2012
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I’d never really thought about a school reunion, until one of my old school-mates mentioned it on Facebook. I’d pretty much lost contact with everyone in my year – even my Facebook friend was someone I only contacted now and again. Partly, it’s because, at school, I was very shy and didn’t think much of the way I looked. After I left, things changed and I became a toned, statuesque woman with glossy black hair and emerald-green eyes.
October 2012
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Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it; that’s always been my rule of thumb. But I’ve got to admit, I was pretty nervous when my boyfriend admitted he wanted to try anal. I’ve had a few boyfriends but, at the ripe old age of 27, I’ve never had a guy come in through the back door.
October 2012
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Working in a fancy dress shop might not be everyone’s idea of heaven, but I quite enjoy it. What I enjoy the most is the wide range of people I get to meet. You get the occasional numbskull; generally guys out on a stag weekend, looking for caveman costumes or the like. And that’s when I get hit on: I’m 27, with long, red hair, a slim figure, but with a butt that could give Jennifer Lopez a run for her money. It ought to win awards, I’ve been told.
September 2012
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Just as some guys are more attracted to overweight women than skinny ones, some guys prefer taller women to shorter ones. Generally, however, shorter women are considered to be more feminine; physically, they look up to men and their smaller frames allow a man to feel more protective about their partner. Yet, many guys will eschew a short girl in favour of a tall one – so what is it that they know that others don’t?
September 2012
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We’ve all heard that many women find a man in uniform a turn-on, but the reverse is also true: many guys find a woman dressed up to the nines in something militaristic or reeking of power a real jump-starter. But what are the reasons behind this fetish?
September 2012
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Words are powerful things; they can affect our moods quite profoundly. Take a moment to consider a time when you’ve been complimented and a time when you’ve been insulted and try and recapture the way each made you feel.
September 2012
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It was the evening of the fancy-dress party and my boyfriend, Charles had just given me a right old seeing-to in the shower. We were supposed to be changing into our costumes, but I was enjoying the post-sex afterglow and just lying on the bed. OK, I’d managed to put on my pointed ears and my elbow-length gloves and tied on my tail-belt, but I wasn’t looking anything like the tiger I was supposed to; more like a contented pussy-cat.
September 2012
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My friend, Wanda, has a wicked sense of humour. Ever since I split up with my last boyfriend, she’s taken me out, once a month to commemorate my latest anniversary of being single.
September 2012
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I’m not going to tell you my age and I can tell that you’re too much of a gentleman to ask; let’s just say that I’m a more mature lady. But, for a woman in her mid-forties, I’m in very good shape and bear more than a passing resemblance to a younger Helen Mirren. My name’s Amanda.
August 2012
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Big girls get a lot of bad press and are generally passed-over in favour of their skinnier counterparts. But, any guy who’s ever dated a bigger girl should be smiling right now because they know the truth of the matter, which is: bigger girls are more fun. But why should size make a difference? Let’s take a look at a few scenarios.
August 2012
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Most people have heard of the Kama Sutra, but few actually know what it holds within its pages. It might be worth investing in a copy for your bookshelf as it can take snuggling up with a book to new heights.
August 2012
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Me and my boyfriend, Kieran, went camping with a mate of his, Roy, last year. Me and Kieran had been together about a year and had discovered that we both like the idea of group sex, although we’d never tried it. Roy, his mate, was a big, black guy who’d never seemed to have a steady girlfriend, but lots of encounters. He and Kieran were thick as thieves, lived together and shared everything.
August 2012
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I recently discovered my husband had had an affair. His excuse was the stresses and strains of work, but I couldn’t get over the fact that he’d gone with some overweight office-junior, when I’m a trim, attractive red-head in her early thirties.
July 2012
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I’ve never been much of a one for office parties, but when you’ve got to go, you’ve got to go. The company I work for is pretty well-to-do; it’s a graphic design company and, once a year, they throw a huge bash with a theme. This year, it was Arabian Nights, so an events company set up some huge tents, filled with cushions and atmospheric lighting and even a belly-dancer.
July 2012
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When it comes to condoms, you’ve got to find your brand. Primarily, they offer protection against unwanted pregnancy and a host of STDs, but that doesn’t mean that your rubber friend can’t offer a few side-benefits. Let’s have a look at the Top 5 most popular condoms and find out why people use them.
July 2012
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The stimulation of the anus during sex has long been known as a way to promote pleasure for women during sex. However, in recent times, many men have reported the same pleasurable sensations when their partners have administered attention to theirs.
July 2012
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Strap-ons are usually associated with lesbian sex, but the truth is that they are used and enjoyed by heterosexual couples, as well as gay men. In essence, a strap-on is a dildo, attached to a harness that is worn around the waist.
July 2012
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Despite what you may have heard, women can enjoy watching erotic films. Although she may not have mentioned it to you, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want to or that she doesn’t like it or (and brace yourself for this one) that she hasn’t already. However, it is worth bearing in mind that, for many women, sex is a much more emotional experience than it is for men and the thought of watching you watch porn might just be a bizarre idea for her. So, how do you get her to the point where she’s happy to press the play button?
July 2012
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There’s the one guy. There always is. His name’s Guy and me and my two flatmates, Sandra and Chrissie all fancy the pants off him. Whenever he’s round to our place, you’ll suddenly see three girls looking at him a bit too long, bending over in front of him if we ‘accidentally’ drop something or letting him get an eyeful down our tops when we give him a cup of tea.
July 2012
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Many men fantasise about sexual encounters with transsexuals, but can often become traumatised, thinking that this might mean they are gay. She-males are one of the most common fantasies among straight men; transsexual men who have engineered their bodies towards femininity, but still retain their male genitalia. While they may have breasts, slender legs and female-looking faces, the penis remains and it is this that is focused on in many fantasies.
June 2012
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OK, so I’m a bit of a slut – but being good isn’t half as much fun. I’m a twenty-four year-old redhead with legs up to her armpits; think Karen Gillan, but with a proper chest. With looks like mine, I’m never short of male attention and I’ve always thought that enjoying yourself is what life’s all about.
May 2012
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Thanks to my huge breasts, I always get looks and whistles when I’m on a beach, so when I found a secluded cove on my first holiday to Barbados, I was delighted. My friend, Heidi, had opted to meet me later, saying she had to meet some friends in the local town.
May 2012
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Getting your girl to play with sex toys can be a real turn-on for many guys. However, there are so many gadgets and contraptions out there, it can be difficult to know which ones she’ll like the most. Let’s have a look at some of the most popular, as voted by the readers of Cosmopolitan Magazine who, just in case you’re wondering, tend to be women – so they’ll know what they’re talking about.
May 2012
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Most of us have some sexual fantasy or other that we would like to make a reality. However, the differences between fantasy and reality can be quite pronounced. Whipping is a common fantasy for both men and women, but how can you introduce it into the bedroom?
May 2012
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The idea of a MFM threesome can be a huge turn-on for many women. However, it can be a genuinely challenging idea for many men. What is it that makes an MFM session so different from a threesome with two women?
May 2012
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My best mate’s fella, Pete, is a bit of a wimp, to say the least. How he ended up landing a hot girl like Kate, I’ve no idea. He’s a nice guy and all that, but he’s got the constitution of a jelly.
April 2012
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I’m no two-timer, but when I met Dave, things worked out differently. He was going out with my mate Vicky and she’s a real bitch, who didn’t treat him well. Sure, she looks like a supermodel – but what gives her the right? But he couldn’t bring himself to dump her, so we ended up having an affair.
April 2012
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’ve never like boasters and Mike was one. He was invited to my flatmate’s birthday party and pretty soon was boasting about the size of his manhood and how he’s never met a girl who could cope with it.
April 2012
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I’d never been on holiday on my own before, but it was just what I needed. I’d just broken up from my boyfriend Steve, because he just didn’t seem to like sex as much as I do. I thought it was me at first, but my friends rallied round, pointing out that most men would be delighted to date a 24 year-old model with long, black hair and perfectly-formed tits. But not Steve
April 2012
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Role play is often seen as a sign that we are bored with our lovers and need a change. However, while this may be true of some people, role play can also be an integral part of some sex-lives; it can encompass the core elements of a relationship, such as communication, intimacy and honesty and can serve to strengthen it.
April 2012
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They say that the march of a thousand miles begins with a single step and the same is true of your first time at and S&M club. As much as you’re going to be excited, you’re also going to be nervous, but there are a few things you can do to make your first visit as relaxed as possible.
April 2012
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Orgies have been held from the dawn of civilization, from the Roman Times to the 21st Century. While Roman orgies might have been held for religious or political purposes, there is nothing to stop you hosting one of your own – as long as you bear a few things in mind.
April 2012
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My friend, Keren, and I had both been single for a while. If you knew us, you’d think it was a bit odd; I’m not boasting, but we’re both pretty fit: Keren looks like Cheryl Cole and I bear more than a passing resemblance to Rachel McAdams. But this one night, we had our old friend Rob around for a few drinks and a few drinks turned into a few drinks more and the conversation turned to sex.
April 2012
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After Uni, I took a year out and went back-packing across Europe. By the time I reached Spain, I was low on finds, so took a job teaching English as a Foreign Language at a local Academy.
March 2012
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Being Chinese, going to see the Chinese New Year Parade is important to me, especially as this year is the Year of the Dragon; an important year in the Eastern Zodiac.
March 2012
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No, it’s not a martial art – although, with enough practice, you might be able to leave your partner incapacitated for a while! Kinbaku is a Japanese form of bondage or BDSM. It has grown significantly in the west over the last decade, particularly on the fetish scene. But how do you learn the ropes?
March 2012
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For a lot of people, talking about their sexual fantasies can be quite embarrassing. On top of that, you’ve got the worry that they might take it the wrong way; that you’re somehow suggesting that they’re not giving you what you want between the sheets.
March 2012
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Downton Abbey isn’t what you would expect to start having sexual fantasies over, but that’s how it started for me.
March 2012
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The first time I sex outdoors was when I was nineteen. My boyfriend, Max, had taken me for a picnic in the grounds of a local castle. It was a hot day and he’d packed the works: champagne, smoked salmon and strawberries.
March 2012
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I dated my husband, Steve, for a year before he proposed. We were engaged for six months and then two months after that, I found I was expecting our first child.
March 2012
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If you have the room, you’d build a playroom for kids – so why not build one for adults? Many people enjoy getting down ‘n’ dirty in sex dungeons, so why not build one of your own. Of course, there are likely to be a few hurdles to overcome...
March 2012
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I’ve always know I was sexy and attractive to men. I’m young-looking for a girl in her late twenties, with one of those blonde, pixie-style bobs and very slim, with small, but perfectly-formed tits.
March 2012
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A spit roast is a threesome involving two men and one woman. It is used widely by those who enjoy group sex and sometimes by men who have a fetish for seeing their wives or girlfriends being penetrated.
March 2012
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Sex is an integral part of most couple’s relationships. While it can be a way of expressing love and emotion, it can also be a way of just getting off on pure lust.
March 2012
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First off, it’s a good idea to get your head around just what swinging is. It’s not the same as tolerating or being aware of an infidelity; swinging is a social, sexual pursuit that is enjoyed by couples.
February 2012
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Most people have a favourite body part when it comes to physical attraction. Being into breasts, buttocks or having an eye for legs is all deemed ‘normal’, but as soon as you come out of the foot locker and declare yourself interested in feet, you’re branded as ‘kinky’.
February 2012
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My husband, Mike, has always been attentive as a lover. He’s even asked me about my innermost fantasies and I’ve told him. Perhaps the weirdest one I’ve confessed to is for me to have sex with other men while he watches.
February 2012