First Steps In Kinbaku
No, it’s not a martial art – although, with enough practice, you might be able to leave your partner incapacitated for a while! Kinbaku is a Japanese form of bondage or BDSM. It has grown significantly in the west over the last decade, particularly on the fetish scene. But how do you learn the ropes?
All Tied Up
In essence, Kinbaku involves tying the bottom in simple, yet intricate patterns, using pieces of rope that are usually around 6mm in diameter – although they can sometimes be less. The most popular ropes used are either made from jute or hemp, each offering a particular sensation to the proceedings. In western bondage, ropes are used primarily for restraint which, in turn, can heighten sexual anticipation and pleasure. Because of the intricacies of the knots and patterns used in Kinbaku, it is used both to restrain and, in some cases, to offer choices: a pattern may offer two options for movement, but each will offer its own discomfort. The dilemma for the submissive party is to decide which is the lesser of two evils.
The Kinbaku Kid
Although not a martial art, those looking to take part can join ‘dojos’, where they learn the ancient skills involved. These lessons are private and under the instruction of a Kinbaku Master, so there is no danger of the bindings being incorrect or life-threatening in any way. The purpose of Kinbaku is to make the recipient vulnerable to particular forms of sexual play; each knot and pattern offering different possibilities. In addition, there are configurations that will increase the recipient’s sexual pleasure as they struggle. Finding a Kinbaku Master is simply a matter of searching the Internet. However, it is worth stressing that Kinbaku should, under no account, be attempted by someone who has not been trained. Students can learn at home or by visiting the Master and are likely to learn things such as: types of rope, slip knots, quick-release knots, double-limb bondage and harnesses. These skills are learnt incrementally, beginning with basic rope-work and progressing through intermediate to advanced levels.